Imagine sitting down with your team, 6 months from now.
You are happy with the direction that your organization is going. As you look around, you notice:
Are you concerned it's not possible in your workplace?
Perhaps you are wondering how you can get to that point in the next six months. What needs to happen to get you from where you are now to where you want to be?
Oh but it is!
Instantly, your mind is searching for options, answers, new ways of addressing old challenges, something that you haven’t already tried.
You know that yesterday’s solutions won’t do. You’ve become openly, intentionally curious about what could be. Now, imagine helping all of your team members to embrace their inherent curiosity - and doing so in an intentional manner. Consider what will be different in your organization if everyone is openly curious, willing to explore and be patient with others as they are doing the same. That is the kind of environment that breeds magnetic cultures.
It is intentional curiosity that creates cultures that flourish.
You need to get intentionally curious
Curiosity is the lifeblood that moves you along the continuum from toxic to magnetic workplaces. Instead of indifference, curiosity is shown when people care about your thoughts and ideas. They are responsive to what you are saying and feeling. Your co-workers are genuinely interested in what you’ve got to say. They may not agree with everything, but they give you their attention and respect and hear you out.
Most think of curiosity as a desire to learn or know about someone or something. This definition falls short of what is needed to pull people and teams along the continuum from toxic to tolerable to magnetic workplaces. Curiosity is critical in a magnetic environment. It is not a casual act that is thrown in for fun.
So why not just all be more curious?
Becoming intentionally curious sounds simple enough right? It’s kind of like believing communication with others should be easy. After all, we all have the ability to speak and listen and yet we often end up in conflict with one another. Communication should be easy … shouldn’t it? And, of course, it’s not. Getting intentionally curious is equally difficult.
Notice that we’ve used the word intentional in front of curiosity several times. That’s because this kind of curiosity is purposeful and directed.
Intentional curiosity is a process.
Here is how you can get more intentionally curious
Practicing intentional curiosity is not asking a single question. Intentional curiosity happens over time, between people and teams. As people ask questions, search and inquire, the depth and breadth of what they are exploring expands.
Curiosity helps to develop stronger relationships: When you get to know someone better, whether you like them or not, you have more respect for them and have an easier time working with them. More than understanding how things work and what we can do to make them work better, intentional curiosity centers on relationships.
However, this is where it gets tricky!
Make it real for your workplace
Think back to a time when you were curious and acting on your curiosity backfired. Many of us have held back on sharing our ideas because it felt risky to put our idea into the group. Or we’ve not volunteered to take on a new role because we weren’t sure what to expect. Let's be honest. It often feels safer to stick with what we know.
It feels safer to stay inside our comfort zones. We know what to expect and know how to handle things. Even if it’s not comfortable, we tolerate it, because it is what we know.
Heads up: It will be a bit uncomfortable
Any time we are asked to stretch outside of that zone, we get scared. It is in our DNA to respond with a fight, flight or freeze mentality. It’s hardwired into our body. It is this innate self-preservation that makes us resist being intentionally curious.
But…..Curiosity helps to develop stronger relationships. It’s these stronger relationships that develop stronger teams, magnetic teams.
3 steps for creating a magnetic workplace
So, how do you practice intentional curiosity?
Are you ready to go on a journey to create a magnetic workplace?
These are not 3 easy steps, but we have faith in your ability to make life better for yourself and the people you work with.
Remember when you were dreaming about this ideal earlier? We talked about what would be different 6 months from now. Ultimately, to get there, your goal will be to gain a commitment from everyone on your team or at least almost everyone. When you do that, you’ll get to that vision 6 months from now.
What's your next step?
Now that you've read this, what will you do about it? We'd love to hear from you. What step are you going to take for taking responsibility for creating an engaged workplace?
Make a note below.
Articles by Bill Scott & Kathy Archer
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